Let's Talk Men!

First off … MEN AIN’T SH*T!!

 LOL just kidding ya’ll not all of them just the vast majority.

Men I love ya’ but ya’ll gotta do better. 

Men who talk a good game are usually the weakest players in the league. A woman doesn’t want a man all talk with no action. It all sounds good when you are saying sweet nothings in our ear but a real one knows that doesn’t mean shit and words ain’t gonna get you the cookie! 

I come across a lot of fine men , who seem to meet my  criteria in the beginning  but once you start talking to them most of them are not educated, communication is not even bare minimum, “WYD” Is not a conversation starter! In my book that’s the quickest way to lose my interest. Replying hours later is a no especially if we text your ass back within 5mins of you texting us, its just disrespectful to keep us waiting lol . I like a man with a call to action , ( Him : You have plans tonight ? Her : No not tonight, what about you ? Him: Im picking you up at 8pm be ready for dinner). That example is a man who has a plan and is showing his interest.  Women like that shit! 

Now that we’ve established how men can’t communicate. Let’s talk about how inconsistent they are. Here one day and gone the next then back again then disappear again. I can only speak for myself when I say this BUT THAT ON AND OFF SHIT GOTS TO GO! Inconsisntency and terrible communication = just throw my number away lol

Ladies, I know you can tell a man thats been fortunate enough to be raised by his mother or grandmother because they are usually gentleman! Shout outs to you moms and grandma’s. But a little refresher here and there on how to treat woman etiquette is always welcomed though sometimes they forget what they’ve been taught. Lol!

REAALLLLLLY handsome men you should look out for , half of the time they are PLAYERS and out here really playing the field and are typically the smoothest liars.

I should take my own advice when I say this but don’t knock the man that isn’t as cute or isn’t as tall as your “list” this is usually the man that will treat you like the QUEEN you are! 

When it comes to men in general having patience will be required. Waiting for the universe to send you the man that is the one for you will take some time. I’ve been single for nearly six years and I refuse to settle for anything less than I deserve and neither should you. 

All that being said keep working on YOU sis. Continue to grow within yourself , your career , growing closer with God and sooner than later you’ll come across a man that only wants to play for your heart. 

 Xx, 

Elle